朋友—记一次课前
什么是朋友?谁是你最好的朋友?你了解他(她)吗?
在千万年之中,在时间的无边荒野里,没有早一步,也没有晚一步,刚巧赶上;于千万人之中,你遇见了你所遇见的人,他(她)也许就是你的朋友。
人生短短几十年,不要给自己留下什么遗憾才好。想笑的时候就笑,想哭的时候就哭,把不尽人意,不顺心的事一次性、干干净净的发泄出来,但不快乐、伤心、难过全都只是过程,惟有快乐才是终点,千万不要把世事都看得太完美!
如果朋友让你生气,那只能说明你还在意你们之间的感情,也许他(她)就是你最好的朋友,为什么不把心放宽点呢?
知道吗?什么是益友?什么是损友?
我认为益友就是为了朋友两肋插刀的人,当然具体情况又具体分析,为什么事而两肋插刀有是另一回事了;而损友就是你为了他(她)两肋插刀,而(她)却反过来插-你两刀!!
其实,我们活得很艰难。确实,我们既要承受种种来自外部的压力,又要面对自己内心的困惑。在苦苦挣扎中,如果有人向你伸出援助之手,投以理解的目光(而这个人就是你的益友),你就会感到一种来自原始生命的暖意。
有些事情我们无法控制,所以我们只好控制自己。虽然有些人很可恶,有些人很卑鄙,但当我们设身处地的为他们着想时,才知道,他们其实比我们还可怜,所以,请原谅你恨过的人,原谅那些坏人,所谓的好人!
生活中,不断有人离开或出现,而我也即将离开这个舞台,于是,看见的,看不见了;记住的,遗忘了;生活中也不断有得到和失落,于是,看不见,看见了;遗忘的,记住了。它们就这样交替着,更改着,不知疲倦。
然而,看不见的,是不是就等于不存在呢?
记住了的,是不是就代表永远不会消失?
而我们是不是应该记住该记住的,遗忘该遗忘的,改变能改变的,接受不能改变的呢?
我不知道我现在做的哪些是对的,哪些又是错的,所以我现在能做的就是尽力做好每一件事。
能冲刷一切的除了眼泪就是时间。
最好我告诉大家一个心得体会:同学只有1年或2年,最多3年,而朋友有一辈子!!!
never give up
nothing is difficult if you put your heart on it. nothing is easy if you don’t try your best.
we often hear people say, “never give up.” this can be encouraging words and words of determination. a person who believes in them will keep trying to reach his goal no matter how many times he fails. in my opinion, the quality of determination to succeed is an important one to have. therefore, i believe that we should never give up.
one reason is that if we give up too easily, we will rarely achieve anything. it is not unusual for us to fail in our first attempt at something new, so we should not feel discouraged and should try again. besides, if we always give up when we fail, we will not be able to develop new skills and grow as people. another reason we should never give up is that we can learn from our mistakes only if we make a new effort. if we do not try again, the lesson we have learned is wasted. finally, we should never give up because as we work to reach our goals, we develop confidence, and this confidence can help us succeed in other areas of our lives. probably the greatest example of persistence is abraham lincoln. born into poverty, lincoln was faced with defeat throughout his life. he lost eight elections, twice failed in busineand suffered a nervous breakdown.
he could have quit many times - but he didn't and because he didn't quit, he became one of the greatest presidents in the history of our country.lincoln was a champion and he never gave up. in short, it is important that we don’t give up when working for our goals. whether we succeed in the end or not, we will learn something, and what we learn will help us to become better, more confident people. furthermore, if we give up, we have no chance of attaining our goals, but if we keep trying, there is always a chance that we will succeed one day.thank you very much!